This post was originally published on November 4, 2016
The latest update to this post was made 7 years ago.
Relationships And The Dreaded ‘I Need Some Space’ Line…
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Tips
- If you are reading this while your relationship is still good:
- Don’t take her for granted
- Pay compliments when appropriate
- Be a gentleman
- Random gifts or positive sayings can be a good thing
- Don’t be an idiot and cheat or do something else idiotic like this
- Don’t be too clingy.. If you are the clingy type (as I’ve been told I can be at times) and she is not… backing off a bit can be a good thing, lighten up on the calls, texts and well, everything in between. Slowly rebuild and see where things go. Non clingy women see this as a sign of weakness I’m told!
- If you are reading this and you’ve already had the ‘needs her space’ line thrown:
- Cut off communications… If things go well, she will realize how much she misses your goofy ass and will come back. Chances are the comeback will be great and all is well!
- Move on.. there is a good possibility she is already seeing or starting the process of seeing someone else. Your chances of recovery are slim to none on this one.
- You have moved out of 1st place and are now in the safety net (aka friend) zone. Cut contact, I’ve heard that in some cases… She will have second thoughts and may come back. If you’re feeling like an ass, you could always say you need your space when she comes back… 😉
- Remember this : if you really love someone you’ll never ‘need space from them!’ – an hour or three break possibly, but not days or weeks!
Now before you all attack… I realize not every situation is the same, but in my experiences and the experiences of the people I’ve talked with on this subject, we found this probably applies to 75%-85% of the population. Did I miss anything? Comment below!
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